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| Break Up, My First Relationship; Can anyone relate? | |
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| Tweet Topic Started: Oct 23 2004, 04:49 AM (273 Views) | |
| Spitfire #22 | Oct 23 2004, 04:49 AM Post #1 |
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sup guys, I've only come to this forum recently but I think im noticed by a few of you by now, with all my post and whatnot. Anyway, im 20 years old...recently broke up with my first girlfriend....we met when I turned 17. she was by-polar, depressed, low-selfsteem, suicidal tendencies, bad family history, bad boyfriend history. We broke up and is it wrong that I dont feel so bad...or sad...like right now shes drinking and is super-down about the whole thing. Im just myself...I guess I have an analitical side to me, I dont get all emotional about stuff. despite all her bad traits I never held it againts her....but she was so negative sometimes that it affected me. So can anyone relate to me? Im curious to know, what do you do...once you've experienced sex, and all the bad things.....come out of your first and only relationship....start going to parties? find someone else? be by yourself? tell me how you guys handled that.....it doesnt have to be your first....has to be a long one you got out of within at least 2 years ago. thanks!! (no im not depressed, just telling my story) :ph43r: *kick* |
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| Eggy | Oct 23 2004, 06:31 AM Post #2 |
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The first and only girl I loved (still) can't remember my birthday lol ...ai...now I'm down...
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| Foster | Oct 23 2004, 06:41 AM Post #3 |
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I've never had a long-term relationship, but I've consoled alot of my friends when theirs went down. All I know is that if she was bringing you down, she wasn't worth it. If you don't feel sad, thats the way you feel. Hope that helps. |
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| Sigfried | Oct 23 2004, 08:26 AM Post #4 |
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Objection!!!
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the only girl i had left me to go away from the citiy i lived, since then, i only think of going to live in my motherland germany and have my life there, carrying on with my bloodline, yeah i know that sounds cold, but i killed almost every emotional part of me, i think thats why i take things with calm and neutrality, even if is strong enough like the almost rape of my sister |
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| BananaSlug | Oct 23 2004, 10:15 AM Post #5 |
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Someone almost raped your sister? I don't think it would be possible for me to be emotionless enough to not kick that guy's ass. |
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| Darknez | Oct 23 2004, 10:16 AM Post #6 |
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Pfft, Puny Mortals..
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My Ex? Oh.. I hit er' on the head with a big ole' shovel!! ... MUHAHAHAHAHAH!!! .... wel no... but i should have.. I found out she was moving to america, so i rung her and she said, very casually "Oh, yeah.. did'nt i tell you? oh well, does'nt matter" then hung up on me.. then i hear that a week after she moved there, her mum caught her stark naked with two guys in her room, i did'nt know wether to shout "BUSTED!!" or just collapse on the floor. Using this equasion, i have learned that: - Women LIE, THEY LIEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!! Ahem.. - My Ex needs to be lined up and shot - The only woman with any use is one who does'nt ask questions. Oh. and - They're great to make the old one jealous when she finds out the new one is better than her, Score!
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| Spitfire #22 | Oct 23 2004, 11:43 AM Post #7 |
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sigfried, you are I are alot alike. Like 2 dictators from other worlds....we should get together, and plan world domination...then eventually turn on each other. it will be a great time. "I know we will drink alot", and nake women's everywhere. seriously, I have developed a cold neutrality in terms of feelings...I think i'am becoming numb...... |
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| Sigfried | Oct 23 2004, 12:26 PM Post #8 |
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Objection!!!
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i know, even by the death of the brother of my grandfather, i didnt care about it, even if everyone around me was crying, i just felt nothing, but in matters of vengeance, all my dark side is directed with a mischivous inteligence and planification, damn i cant even do some blind rage |
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| brackenwoodfire | Oct 23 2004, 01:32 PM Post #9 |
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As far as I know I will never expeirence the emotion love or anything following it...... |
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| Foster | Oct 24 2004, 09:10 AM Post #10 |
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People may think I'm cold by my calm demeanor, but I'm really a nice guy with feelings and such. I just don't wear them on my sleeve like many people. |
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| Spitfire #22 | Oct 24 2004, 11:40 AM Post #11 |
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Thing only get more complicated for me. see, i play in a band....the leader of the band along with me, is my Ex-s moms boyfriends son, who lives with my ex..... so now, my drum set is over there, we cant practice, he is grounded. My ex's mom tells me to keep a low profile for now..and not do anything. I cant even call there...neither can any of the other members. and, one person is has alot to go to hell for, is my gf's moms boyfriend. the most negative person, so sarcastic....gets in everyones businesss and always has an opinion, I hate him more then life itself!!! you guys might not know someone like that. but he is the type of guy, that if you call my gf's mom...and ask her something serious, you can hear him screaming with his opinion. I cant stand it, I feel sorry for my guitarist (his son) my gf, and her mom....just a horribly unstable household.. He will pay for what he is in time... :angry: |
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| brackenwoodfire | Oct 25 2004, 12:13 PM Post #12 |
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i know a few people like that guy....oh man i hate them. |
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| Abomination | Nov 3 2004, 01:49 PM Post #13 |
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I've known a girl like your girlfriend. She was my friend's gf, and she was kinda... strange. When they broke up (cmon, those high school romances are jokes) she started cutting herself with a knife and ended up wearing a scarf around her arm. She had an unstable household with a violent father and a simple minded mother. She stopped cutting herself a few days after I sent her a link to a forum where people spoke about similar "cutting" problems. She still roams the hallways in the school, she doesn't seem to have any friends during recess.... I feel sad for her when I see her. She was rejected from the groups because she had an unusual habit... guess I can't do much more about it.... |
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| brackenwoodfire | Nov 10 2004, 03:10 PM Post #14 |
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wow....thats deppressing Abom.... |
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| Leebobfart | Nov 13 2004, 03:34 AM Post #15 |
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dude thats some messed up stuff i don't see how someone an get so messed up as to cut themselves, I would cut the ouuther pwerson befor i cut myself... hehehe |
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| MadGoat | Nov 13 2004, 05:29 AM Post #16 |
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Yeah, my sister started cutting herself a while ago. Don't know how she could do it. I could never intentionally hurt myself. I am also a calm person, when my sister started doing bad things and getting drunk all the time I didn't care at all. I was sad when my grandmother died, but i was unable to show it. It's extremely hard to get me pissed, but extremely easy to make me happy. I guess I my emotions like to lean one way. |
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