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Break Up
Topic Started: Apr 26 2008, 10:56 PM (261 Views)
Ignazio
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This started April 13th, 2008. My ex-girlfriend Cathy went to the movies with her friends not inviting me to go even though I hate to see movies on Sundays. I got mad at her because I wanted to hang out with her and her friends used her for free tickets. It turns out her friends left her there and she had no ride home...So instead she has a co-worker bring her home but instead she goes to his house. They play Brawl than he made sexual advances on her and ended up having sex with her. I was totally pissed and from that day I cried so much that i couldn't eat for days. She was technically raped... I bought her the morning after pill and a video game to take her mind off of it. She later that Tuesday went back to the movie theater (note this is 2 days after) to watch a movie...the kid who started all this was there and told everyone about what happened. Later on that week she said to me that she wanted to get rid of all her problems. Meaning me and the other kid. We eventually worked things out and we were friends with benefits. Now day by day i was worried for her. I cried more, was more depressed. I told her Saturday how much i love her and that i would never want you to suffer again. She said thanks for being such a good bf. Now 6 days later i give her the $ for a prom ticket. Later that day I thought things would were going to be ok and by summer we would be back together NO! I find out at 7 p.m . That she got the day off from work for Friday and that kid who started all this (don't think i mentioned his name is Anthony) and she is going to hang out with him at lazer tag... I was like wtf why wasn't i invited to make sure nothing happens again. So she said "I will call you to say everything is ok and he isn't doing anything to me." So I trusted her. But later that day she never called. I didn't receive word from her until 12:15 A.M. saying nothing happened and to chill out. I goto sleep and wake up to try to call her. No response i called her and called her. Finally i went on MySpace to find out I was not loved by her anymore and i am just a #3 friend now.... She said to me later that she liked this kid over me. So you cheated on me again. He got everything I ever taught her these past 9 months. He got 2 bjs and a hand job. So i said thats it i am leaving you. Now it haunts me I taught her how to give the best bj ever just for me and now she is giving it to another guy behind by back and lying to me. Everything I worked for gone. My sexual favors gone. My love gone. I have no idea what to do anymore. I purposely got my hours switched so i could hang out with her back in August. Now it hurts me more and more the torment and depression i have now from losing my love to a guy who is getting free sexual favors until he ditches her. i will never ask for her back or take her back. I need to find a girl who can trust me and love me with all their heart unlike this skank. So I write to you in my horrible literally terms and paragraph writing my whole month of April. Was a waste of $300 and love and trust for a guy who thinks of her only as a tool for sex.
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ur GF that u introduse me to at CT-Con and came over my house twice??


and she seemed so nice...
I don't like people hurting those who I care about...

that just goes to prove to myself....April is the HELL MONTH
The reason I say this is what's going on with me...and all I can do is worry, hope, and pray that all is well...
Sometimes, no matter how hard we try, our past will catch up to us and will continue to haunt us till the end of time...
But that doesn't mean ya should give up no matter how tough it seems.
Cause one day, we shall meet again...
Under that Cherry Blossom Tree...
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Today would of marked me and Cathy being together for 10 months...It is all just so depressing. I hate her so much and I miss her that much to...
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I might be wrong, but the part when you tell me she didn't invite you to go to the movies with her and this guy makes me think that what you say was "technically raped", was actually premeditated cheating.

I get the feeling you express here. The time and money you basically "wasted", for some months of pleasure (both sexual and others, obviously), ending with lies and a serious depression and rage. Also, the fact she's doing all she did with you with some other guy that doesn't care about her. All that sense of time lost and thinking "I will have to do this all over again...". All of this really kicks you in the nuts if you can't let the past go.

A word of advice: It seems to me both you and the girl are quite materialistic, which is something I would work out in your future relationships, if I were you. Instead, give value to the sentimental side. Yes, yes, bullcrap, you'd say. It's not. Even if you don't want to get serious with that girl, don't give her the world, or, in this case, 300$, just as a "see, I love you, so I do this for you. Please love me back". Express your love with something more symbolic and sweet. Cute, yet not retarded stuff. Flowers, for example. Go shop for clothes with her. Naturally, you'll gain reputation for it, and while saving your wallet, it might be helpful if you ever want to get serious with some other girl. Word spreads. But I'd never tell you to do it if it isn't natural. Each person is what he or she really is, and if you make an effort to be different, the most probable thing to happen is it all going down the drain.

Forget that girl. Stand up, raise your head. You will fall in love again. And remember that feeling of discovery and excitement in the first months of the relationship? The "spark", and then the "fire"? It will be back. And you will never regret the experience you already have from this seemingly stable relationship that unfortunately ended quite drastically.
You will thank yourself for opening your eyes.


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My, my look who's turned into the love doctor.
What you up to now dt? An update would be greatly appreciated. Seems i have lost my MSN account(due to several months of busy business, and lack of interest for the internet lol).
Form is temporary, class is permanent. Cheers gaffa!
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It's incredible how, after all this time, I still feel the urge to check these forums, even though I know I won't be adding something important to the community except a shy "hello, still here". However, in this particular matter, I feel quite confortable blabbing about (hence the great wall of text), not because of experience (which, I admit, isn't much), but my tendency to like human psychology a lot. I feel I need to cultivate this interest, though at the same time thinking I'm working hard on something so abstract makes me feel sad. Heh.

Life's been good. I feel I'm finally getting the freedom I deserve, from the obvious growing-up, from my parents (well, my mother. My father has passed away last year, but that is a whole other story). I'm trying to get economical freedom too, but that's proving to be a lot more difficult. I realized I have filled up all my vacations with, well, vacation projects and trips. With that said, getting a summer job seems impossible. I'm attending a summer school in a couple of weeks in Scarborough, for example.
It's my birthday today, too. :)

That's life. How are you doing, DK?

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Ah, human psychology. I wouldn't particulary call it 'abstract', it's a beautiful subject to be discussing. You planning on studying human psychology if i may ask? As for me i've been working alot, hence my long absence from this forum and various other internet hobbies. I was also contemplating applying for a Arts & Design diploma, maybe a professional career in it for me.

Looking for a fresh girlfriend, perhaps one who would actually settle down with me. Life's bringing its ups & downs, i'm just happy to continue. Can't fortell what the future will bring though.

I'll probably need to set up a new account for MSN, though i have so little time for the internet now. I will try and keep in contact whenever possible.

That's about it i think!

-DK

p.s oh and happy belated birthday! :)
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