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| Pat the Bunny | Feb 8 2007, 08:54 PM Post #1 |
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ok i have a weird problem. there's this girl, whom i will refer to as E.D.O(Eternally Despicable One). anyhow, my classmates told me that they all hate her, whereas she acts so friendly around them. now heres the dilemna: tell or not tell. if i tell her, i get revenge for the past 5 years she hated my guts( IE Punching, Kicking, etc. FOR NO REASON ), by making her social life a toal wreck or not tell, i can't tell because it's too mean. what should i do? |
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| Super Hurricane | Feb 8 2007, 09:00 PM Post #2 |
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Ignore her, she's not worth your time. And if the other students hate her, then don't stick up for her. It's not like you have a crush or anything in common. |
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| Anime Master ZERO | Feb 8 2007, 09:02 PM Post #3 |
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If she kept on hurting you for no reason, that makes her a bully and she deserves the treatment everyone is giving her. Tell her using thet harshest vocabulary possible. Then when you're finished, say to her that now she knows how you felt. |
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| Pat the Bunny | Feb 8 2007, 09:03 PM Post #4 |
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First off: I'M A BOY WHAT'S WRONG WITH YOU SH???? Secondly, the first option is making her life a living HELL, second is to keep her on earth, and when she dies, DOWN SHE GOES. and lastly, sticking up for her is the LAST THING i'll do. the thing i forgot to mention is, that the other girls act friendly to her. @AMZ: that's a little harsh isn't it? anyway, i didn't really care, it just hurt, A LOT. |
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| Anime Master ZERO | Feb 8 2007, 09:03 PM Post #5 |
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Dude, read my advice. |
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| Pat the Bunny | Feb 8 2007, 09:06 PM Post #6 |
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I did Yeesh |
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| Anime Master ZERO | Feb 8 2007, 09:12 PM Post #7 |
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When it comes to dealing with bullies, there's no such thing as "too harsh". She tormented you, so you have every right to be just as nasty to her if not more. And nobody can say anything about it because you were the victim, not her. |
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| Deleted User | Feb 8 2007, 09:17 PM Post #8 |
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I have to agree with AMZ on this one. There is no such thing as overkill with bullies. Being a social reject for the better part of my life and being constantly tormented, taunted, wispered about behind my back has made my cold, bitter and yes, a little bit paranoid. Normally, I have a live and let live policy. However, I think you gave her a piece of your mind. However, it would probabbly be better if you did it subtly, not pubicly. If you announce your intention to ruin her life, than she'll be on guard, but if you find a way of spereading a paticularlay nasty rumor about her or find a way to permientnly ruin her reputation, that would be even better. The deepest wounds are the emotional ones, I find. |
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| Pat the Bunny | Feb 8 2007, 09:17 PM Post #9 |
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well,actually not for NO REASON, just when i midly ticked her off, or she has nothing left to counter she threatens. and often she DOES do that *shudders* and another thing, i tell, she cries, i get kicked outta school <_< |
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| GAT-X252 | Feb 8 2007, 09:20 PM Post #10 |
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Mmmh... a girl was beating you? O_o Anyhow, doing that would just bring you to her level, now the true question is: do you want to become like her? Then again... I personally hate hypocrisy... so I would actually be HAPPY you would tell me what others say in my back, so you may end up helping her that way... *shrug* Hard one eh? |
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| Yoyo | Feb 8 2007, 09:58 PM Post #11 |
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I'd rather not see any harsh treatment either way. what would you get by causing pain you felt back to her besides just feeding sadistic desires of revenge? No person deserves to be treated badly, even if they've done worse to you. as we've seen in AMZ's fanfic, trying to one up bullies only makes you one yourself, and most of the time it becomes worse off than they were to you. which is worse. I say, be the bigger man and don't do anything. No matter how bad it was for you, you might do more damage. i believe the saying went, "an eye for an eye makes the whole world blind?" so SUCK IT UP AND GET OVER IT EMO KID << |
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| Pat the Bunny | Feb 8 2007, 10:06 PM Post #12 |
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y'know out of everything, GAT and Yoyo and SH had the most useful advice, i don't agree with AMZ and TL's 'Revenge' thing. it's just not me. so i'll just keep it, she puts some shit on me, I mess her up ROYAL |
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| Deleted User | Feb 8 2007, 10:38 PM Post #13 |
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I'm not going to even dignifiy that with a responce. Who would honestly listen to the adivce of someone who does name-calling like a 7 year old? If you are indeed a moderator, then act like one and grow up. I don't say this out of malice, but out of concern for the board. We need mature, intelligent moderators and allthough the intelligent qualificaion has been met, the Mature part has not. I'm not advocating revenge, as such, more like showing her how much bullying can hurt. |
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| Yoyo | Feb 8 2007, 10:44 PM Post #14 |
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oh, please. whenever i say something in big, capitalized text, i'm usually just acting stupid for shits and giggles. I didn't wish to end the post on a sore note, and i assumed most people would get what i meant. apparently it was a bit over your head, however. |
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| Pancake Mix | Feb 8 2007, 10:45 PM Post #15 |
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Okay, here's what I'd do. No one gets hurt this way. Drop hints occasionally, such as whenever she walks by, go very quiet, and start mumbling to yourself, staring at her obviously. If she doesn't ask what the hell is wrong with you, try another way to drop a little hint that all the boys don't like her. Keep making the hints more and more obvious, until she realizes for herself. It's a bit mean, but not as mean as telling her outright, and besides, it's for her best. She may not like you for it, but hey, nothing lost there. You can keep a clean conscience, knowing you did someone a favor. And Your male cohorts will not look down on you as a loser for telling her, because you technically, didn't, she found out herself. Also, if all else fails, mention offhand to one of her friends (or their parents, if possible) the fact that she's not as popular wih your classmates lately, and some of them have begun to dislike her intensely. If who you told is an actual friend, they will pass it on. Let's face it, one thing Teenage girls do is GOSSIP. |
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| Deleted User | Feb 8 2007, 10:49 PM Post #16 |
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Yes, please make it clear what you ment, since clearly I don't understand. I don't know WHY you would act stupidly, and allthough it's for "shits and giggles" as you put it, acting stupid is still unbecoming of a moderator, no matter why you do it. I don't see why you would want to purposely taunt me, it makes very little sence, unless the purpose of your message"suck it up and get over it, emo kid" was something other than what it sounded like. To me, it seemed like an insult. Obviously, you've never had to endure the taunting of a bully. Because of that, you have no idea how much words can hurt so you are not exaclty in a postion to tell me to suck it up. |
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| Pancake Mix | Feb 8 2007, 10:53 PM Post #17 |
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*sighs and pushes TL and Yoyo away from each other* Okay, it was a misinterpreted joke. No need to focus on a mistake. Yoyo Didn't mean any harm, and the rest of us usually catch on to his little gags, so he had reason to think it wouldn't mean anything. |
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| Yoyo | Feb 8 2007, 10:54 PM Post #18 |
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... I truly do hate your attitude, Lurker. I'm not even going to lie about it. I can take idiots and the annoying people, but holier than thous are one thing i can't stand. For the record, and aside from this hatred i have towards you, it was a statement that was meant to be... maybe not ironic... i think that's the word for it. Yes, that sounds about right. |
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| Deleted User | Feb 8 2007, 11:00 PM Post #19 |
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*shrug* If it was a joke, it wasn't too clear to me. I guess I don't understand Yoyoman's style of humor very well. I'm sorry to hear that you hate me, it doesn't seem entirely logical, since I haven't done anything to make you hate me, at least not that I can tell. If anything, I've tried my best not to get hated by staff. I never said I was holier than thou. I didn't mean to come off that way, but in truth, if you had ment it exactly the way I thought you did, you would have been kinda immature. However, I appologise. It appears that it was just a joke that I misinterprted. |
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| Yoyo | Feb 8 2007, 11:03 PM Post #20 |
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not hate to you, necessarily. just your attitude. it may not have been intended, but that's how i interpreted it. Seems we should stop interpreting things around here. |
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