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| Tweet Topic Started: Feb 16 2007, 10:45 PM (80 Views) | |
| Yoyo | Feb 16 2007, 10:45 PM Post #1 |
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The Voice of Reason in an Unreasonable world
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I'll keep this story as simple as possible, considering posting about relationships around here isn't the most ideal way to get suggestions. It started back in September or November: i began to go out with this girl who i knew from last year, in my PAVE art class. This year she's in almost all of my classes, but most are at different times. sadly, i didn't try hard enough and she broke it off in the first week, but we said we could still be friends. Then, a few weeks after that, i got an online girlfriend who i grew attracted to. We were referenced by a mutual friend who Girl #2 knew for almost four years. anyway, things are going good. then, as i was hanging out with girl #1 last week, i noticed some odd behavior, like when we were going out. this began to bother me, as i have a girlfriend and now the other is trying to advance on my again. Then, tonight, she comes on AIM and asks what i wanted to talk about. after a while (about an hour) of persuading, i finally told her this story: A few weeks ago, Laura introduced me to a friend of hers online, and after a week or so we decided to begin dating. At the same time, things between us got a bit closer as well, it seemed, but i didnt want to push either of you away. and now im just... torn. when im forced to think about it, i keep getting sick to my stomach trying to decide one or the other. i dont know, really... I like how thing are now, but sooner or later it will just end badly and i just dont know what to do about it. So thats it. Which is.. well, basically what i said above. Then we discussed for a while what i should do to fix the situation, and we can up with that I'm too much of an idealist and want to save everyone the heartbreak, and then she told me to picture which one of them i'd be happier with. I chose neither. Then, she says she's sorry to hear that. I figured she still liked me, and then i blame it on myself for not trying hard enough last time. we both still like each other, it seems, but i also have this girl online who claims to love me. I haven't talked to Girl #2 about this yet, only girl #1. but then things went into this big thing about "it's my fault for not blah blah blah..." or, "it's not your fault, its mine blah blah..." and now, i have no idea what to do. I want to make it out of this without harming anyone... but that's impossible. what do i do... |
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| GAT-X252 | Feb 16 2007, 11:33 PM Post #2 |
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Confusing situation you have there... Well, you may hurt someone in the process, but it can't be worst then if you wait longer before doing it (especially if she learns/knows what was going on all along). |
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| Pancake Mix | Feb 17 2007, 12:04 AM Post #3 |
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BLARGAHGRHGARR
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-.- Why does it seem that I am THE ONLY ONE ON THIS BOARD WITHOUT A GIRLFRIEND?! |
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| Solar Zero | Feb 17 2007, 02:38 AM Post #4 |
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They're taking the hobbits to Florida!
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You ain't alone PM. You got people like me XD....wait that isn't reasuring... |
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| Zero.exe | Feb 17 2007, 04:50 AM Post #5 |
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I don't have a girlfriend either. "In making any decisions, you can do three things. The best thing you can do, is the right thing. The second best thing you can do is the wrong thing. The worst thing you can do, is nothing." -Theodore Roosevelt Mike, let's stay real. Would you choose a girl whom you've never met, or the girl which you didn't try hard enough? Whatever your choice is, it's yours to decide. But to do nothing is the worst thing you possibly can do. My suggestion, get a second attempt on girl number 1. And in the meanwhile, tell online dating number two that you need some time to sort out the things in life. If number one goes badly, you can go for number 2. If number one works, say that you can't pursue a relationship with number two and and that you wish you could still be friends (to number 2). |
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