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About family health problems; Both on mine and my partner's end
Topic Started: Oct 9 2016, 05:29 AM (376 Views)
Konrad Raab
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Hey guys. I really hate to do posts like this, I really do, but since all of you here and in 4CW (Four Corners Wrestling) fed are family to me down to how you all treat me, I'm going to tell you all what's going on that I never had the guts to do in my life.

Yeah what I meant by with something bad is happening in my OOC family tweet I done is the pure fact I had such a horrible phone call this morning from my partner who was crying really bad down on the phone to me at 5:30am European time saying that at that time of the day that her dad is in an incubator because he has problems with his lungs and the doctors practically told her and her sister that he's most likely going to die at the time, which has now happened with him sadly passed away as I was informed by my partner.

Then I have another situation where my own mum is having health problems of her own that's on going for many years of her life. My mum has really bad knee problems called Osteoarthritis which is like in our family gene since my granddad has it and she's got her pre operation for that on Tuesday and she's fallen over twice this week, even at a point of calling the ambulance on Friday because she couldn't get up from the floor at all.

She has had a minor operation before with her other knee, but according to my mum, it's a major one where they got to remove her knee cap to place a metal plate in her other knee this time around and she needs a woman to support her with everything for two weeks and I'm the only female part of family my mum trusts. My sister won't be able to because she's got severe autism.

The second post only would've been alright, but now with the death of her dad, I'm piggy in the middle because it means I have to tackle her dad's funeral and looking after my mum at the same time. Guys, I didn't want to tell you all this, but this is only a public post I'm making here and in 4CW feds only purely because although both feds are different, both handlers and the fedhead/s have one thing in common, you both treat me like family and supported me throughout the entire time I've been apart of these feds with overall support in general whether I was down with my losses like I have been tackling recently or other things, all of you have that in common.

So yeah this is the most heartbreaking thing I have to deal with right now. What I'm going to try to do is RP to what ideas I already have in my head for the Tommy Valentine match and post it either tonight or tomorrow just down to what has happened since I obviously can't fly today cos it's too late and plus I have to cancel a few things which I can't even do until tomorrow (Monday for those who live in the USA and Canada.)

I'm so sorry Mr D and Tommy Valentine handler, but my family comes above this game and I'm immediately have to write with whatever ideas I have in my head and post the RP without the RP being proof read or anything with huge disappointment and regret especially more so that I think Mr D had huge plans for Konrad and I hate to let him down with this, I really do, but it's not his or my own fault. I honestly really really wanted to RP to my full potential for the match, but I no longer can do so because of having to be with my partner on Monday night that she needs me more than ever before which leaves me no time to do stuff properly.

I know you've only known me for a very short time, but in that time, I felt right at home and every OOC disappointing post I've made on twitter, you all been there for me where I never got that in any other fed asides from 4CW. It really means a lot and I thank you all for doing that because I know the entire time a fed closed down, being here was the right decision to make with putting me against challenges that I clearly needed with Konrad since I wasn't getting them on other feds I placed him in and I want to thank Mr D so much for pushing me so god damn hard with me.

Worst part of it is that I won't be able to go to my partner until tomorrow because not only it's too late to fly anyway, but I got to cancel a few things where I live about these situations on top of telling other fed heads in private about it too. I can tell the staff where I live today, but not two other things I have to now cancel I had planned at the time before all of this happened.

I want to say that if it came down to me having to cut down on feds, I will be staying in 4CW and Supreme Championship Wrestling no matter what because these feds are the only places I enjoy to RP in so yes I will be back here and in 4CW one hundred percent. The other feds I'm in are more 50 percent to say the least if I will be coming back to RP there.
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Ace
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I'm very sorry for the passing of your partner's father, I truly hope all comes out well with your mom. She is blessed to have you in her life in her time of need. This is a game, family always comes first and know you're not letting anyone down, least of all olek. Take care of business in real life forst, if you're able to rp, great, if not we understand. You won't be punished for it, this is a game, not a career. Your dedication to it has always shined, you won't miss chances or opportunity over an issue that is far more important.
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Kelcey Wallace
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Take care of your family, you only get one mother. This game will always be here and we''ll always accept you back with open arms, there is no need to apologize. My Condolences on your partners loss and you will be in my thoughts through this tough time. Take care.
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Emerge
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Yeah I echo the sentiments already. Absolutely no need to apologise for putting family first. The passing of a loved one is never easy so be there support each other and youll get through it. Then when you are ready we will be here

Take care
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HardyGirl
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So sorry to hear, it sucks when everything seems to happen at once. Take care of your real family, we'll still be here when you can get back. Sending healing thoughts/energy.
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Chris Cannon
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Yeah mate, everyone has hit the nail on the head. I know what your partners going through after losing my dad to lung cancer almost 3 years now. (Christ time flies). Fam always comes first before the game, always. especially ones mother.

Take care.
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Mr. D
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Don't apologize for anything and no need to worry about anything on SCW's end. This is far more important and whenever you return, we'll figure things out then. My thoughts and prayers are with you, your family and your partner's family.
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DavidHelms
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Genuinely sorry for your partners loss, love. And I hope your mum's condition eases up soon enough. No need to worry about letting anyone down though, you're being there for the people who matter most and that's nothing to say sorry for. We'll all keep you in our thoughts and we'll be here when you come back.
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Thomas Valentine
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I echo everyone's sentiments as I know how it feels to lose someone like that. Think nothing of it mate and concentrate on what really matters. This is a game at the end of the day and we'll be here when you get back.
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Konrad Raab
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I thank everyone for these comments as it's been hard for my partner at least to cope with her dad not being around anymore and she thanks you all too as I showed the comments to her. Thanks again guys.
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Konrad Raab
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Update on my mum's end at least. It turns out that it's not just her knee that's in a bad way, it's also her hip as well and last Friday where my partner had her dad's funeral, my mum went in to have her hip replaced and she has had a few problems on the way with things like blood clot, very low blood pressure and blood transfusion which is now all fine, except for urine infection and having a blood test tomorrow. She is now working to get home despite these problems with equipment to get to go home with.

By the way, my partner has allowed me to RP for the US title match and I have done some CD work already, some I was going to use for the Tommy match I written previously. I won't have time to proof read, but I will be showing one hundred percent. I will never let chances like this unless in a real emergancy slip away from me. My partner luckily got her net back just in time for me to be able to show rather than just selling the match off on twitter like I planned to originally.
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Jake Starr
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We're all thinking about you... Trust me when I say you have a lot of love coming from this place... We're one family here... This is a game, and we're all real people, too. As Ian I simply say, I may not have really talked to you, but if you need anything or just need a random ear to listen to you vent/speak your mind, I'm always a PM/DM/IM away.
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Konrad Raab
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Thank you Ian.

I just want to say that I will be returning to RP fully here at the end of November/beginning of December.
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