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Judgement
Topic Started: May 16 2008, 08:39 AM (281 Views)
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When it comes to friends, family or anyone in general how do you deal with judgement? The mind can, at times, be overwhelmed with other peoples thoughts and opinions, which make it hard to form a proper relationship without the thought of being judged by them. Some people aren't so overwhelmed with judgement as others are, but for the elect few that are, it can be daunting to think your own family member is judging you. To not feel so departed from one another, how do you deal with their judgement; just take it as a grain of salt, stay away from the person, become angry and flustered?
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Judgment from family members and friends can be hard. It's easier to accept criticism from people you do not know than from people you do know and see everyday.
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^ very true.

I pay very little attention to those who try to "judge" me.

I have endured alot of peoples "judgements" because my boyfriend is much older than me. To me love knows no age over 21.
Some people think Im some sort of homewrecker... others think I was looking for a sugar daddy..etc
I just ignore it... if I focus on what they think... it ruins my happiness.

but not everyone can dismiss other peoples thoughts so easily.
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I'm rather unaffected by other people's judgments. Obviously, if it's a good friend whose opinion I trust, I will take it into consideration, but I would never let anything like that have any type of major weight in who I am or what I do.
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Ive rethought this a little :sometimes people have good points when they are being "judgemental"

I think its a good Idea to give them a "once over"... but in the end.. if they arent logical... just let it go!
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