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Boy/Girl Friendships
Topic Started: Dec 16 2008, 02:17 AM (334 Views)
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Currently my best friend is a chick, and I receive a lot of criticism because of it, which really p****s off the both of us.

What are your guys views on this.
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Get together. LOL!
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>.> That is the crap that I get that p****s me off xD

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You just get teased and all that sort of stuff because others are jealous of you being able to socialise so well with a chick. Don't worry about it, next year (you'll be at college next year right? I'm not completely deluded?) it'll all be the norm.
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I'm Aussie :) Our High School goes for 4 years. (some go for 6)
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I probably have more friends that are girls than guys because I get along with girls better. I really don't relate to most guys my age because I'm not into sports, cars, or any of the other "macho" stuff. :P

What Elzabar said is right though. The guys that tease you are either so immature that they don't even know how to talk to a girl, or so immature that they can't possibly imagine just being friends with a girl. :rolleyes:

I'd actually go so far as to say that friendships with members of the opposite sex are usually the most fulfilling. :)
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Dec 16 2008, 01:10 PM
I probably have more friends that are girls than guys because I get along with girls better. I really don't relate to most guys my age because I'm not into sports, cars, or any of the other "macho" stuff. :P

What Elzabar said is right though. The guys that tease you are either so immature that they don't even know how to talk to a girl, or so immature that they can't possibly imagine just being friends with a girl. :rolleyes:

I'd actually go so far as to say that friendships with members of the opposite sex are usually the most fulfilling. :)

Right on! :D

I was in the same situation at one point. Though we did finally end up getting together, it wasn't because of what they kept saying, and also not because it has to happen. There are so many friends of mine who are girls that I'm perfectly happy with as just my friends and wouldn't want anything more. Seriously, just don't let it bug you, and it'll get old to them fast and they'll stop. Plus, it's only because they themselves can't get girls ;)
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I'm Aussie :) Our High School goes for 4 years. (some go for 6)

Oh, wow, didn't know that. I mean, I knew you were Aussie, but I didn't know your High School went for that long. I would've thought you'd have the closest system to New Zealand's.
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Hehe, thanks guys. I guess most of it is true. But I live with it I guess, and I know there is a couple of my mates who just joke with it to annoy me. :P
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my best mate is a guy.

one of my mate cant seem to understand and turns her nose up and shakes her head :/ this really annoys me :(
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when I was in high school... people always thought I was dating my best guy friend..

as an adult.. most people don't think that way... everyone has male and female friends, or if they do think it.. they keep it to themselves :P
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I got the same thing with my best friend Violet.

I think in one day I got asked like 6 times if we were going out.

Meh, I'm used to it now.
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well... now my best guy friend is my boyfriend. :D

he wasn't my "best friend" before we were dating... but definitely a good friend.
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