Your thoughts on Limerence

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Your thoughts on Limerence; e.g. having a "Crush" or "Crushing"
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Magicklorelai	Sep 30 2010, 03:21 AM Post #31
I Just Got Nommed Posts: 220 Group: Members Member #52 Joined: July 29, 2010	aphexsam Sep 30 2010, 02:13 AM I foudn this online about telling a girl you like her "Make eye contact and smile. Eye contact is a perfect way to let a girl know you like her without saying so. Look her in the eyes, don't shy away and don't check her out below the neck at this particular time. If she meets your eyes, smiles back or blushes, then you may have a chance. If she frowns or gives you that "what the heck?" look, back off for a while. Remember though, she may get a lot of attention from men, so that look may be automatic if you are a stranger or near stranger. Don't give up hope over one little frown, maybe she has something in her shoe? Wait a while and try again later. Don't forget to tell jokes just make her laugh. It's the ultimate ice- breaker" Confidence seems to be the key. Hopefully I'll get to see her today but I have a full day so I'm unsure. Don't forget to think from her perspective, being approached by someone she doesn't know. If she frowns and isn't interested in talking, maybe try again later, but if it's a consistent behavior it might be wise to back off. Otherwise, it can cause her alarm. If she doesn't want the attention, it's not a compliment to push the issue. Otherwise, good luck, and be yourself. That sounds cliche, but it's really true. What catches someone's eye is someone who isn't playing a game with them, but regarding them seriously. No special arts are needed there.



aphexsam	Sep 30 2010, 08:22 AM Post #32
Woof Woof Woofies! Posts: 705 Group: Members Member #8 Joined: July 20, 2010	No smile today, once again I had the opportunity I just froze. For fucks sake I really am useless aren't I. We made eye contact multiple times. The first time she held it and then broke it off then she opened a dorr and I was right behind her so I said thanks but it came out as sort of a grunt, I didn't want her to think I was stalking her as we keep on meeting up randomly way too much so I headed off to the right where my classroom is. second time was right after that class. We were both heading out of school, made eye contact then she looked down, so did I. Two missed opportunities, two missed opportunities to smile do I really fail that much, I'm jsut so fucing stunned like a nervous fucking retard FML!. Tommorows non uniform and first period is free hopefully I can smile at her then. I hope she isn't getting creeped out by always seeing me, I really can't tell at this point. FML.



Magicklorelai	Sep 30 2010, 11:47 AM Post #33
I Just Got Nommed Posts: 220 Group: Members Member #52 Joined: July 29, 2010	Don't beat yourself up, kiddo, everyone gets nervous. Try not to imagine a worst-case scenerio before the worst even happens.



aphexsam	Sep 30 2010, 01:03 PM Post #34
Woof Woof Woofies! Posts: 705 Group: Members Member #8 Joined: July 20, 2010	Thanks. I wish I was A-sexual then I wouldn't have to go through this, either that or I become a Tranquil. I wish I knew what she thought of me rather than me scrabbling in the dirt for loose ends.



AndMyAxe414	Sep 30 2010, 05:45 PM Post #35
Chicka Bow! Posts: 1,713 Group: Banned Member #3 Joined: July 20, 2010	Indeed? How about you put it all on the line and approach her?



Magicklorelai	Sep 30 2010, 06:20 PM Post #36
I Just Got Nommed Posts: 220 Group: Members Member #52 Joined: July 29, 2010	aphexsam Sep 30 2010, 01:03 PM Thanks. I wish I was A-sexual then I wouldn't have to go through this, either that or I become a Tranquil. I wish I knew what she thought of me rather than me scrabbling in the dirt for loose ends. Asexuals aren't emotionless, and can very much fall in love. We just don't have sexual drive as a motivating factor. And like AndMyAxe says, you'll know what she thinks when you approach her and talk to her. Like a human being. Pretend she's just a potential new friend, if that helps. Don't go in expecting a romance right off the bat; that's extremely unlikely.



AndMyAxe414	Sep 30 2010, 08:58 PM Post #37
Chicka Bow! Posts: 1,713 Group: Banned Member #3 Joined: July 20, 2010	Reasons to approach her: Possibility of a friendship Possibility of a romance Dispelling the stalker theory Learn her favourite things and what she likes to do Reason to not approach her: You like the idea of being thought of as a useless fucking prod. Your choice. Chica Bow.



TheMonty646	Sep 30 2010, 09:19 PM Post #38
Chicka Bow! Posts: 1,383 Group: Members Member #54 Joined: July 29, 2010	AndMyAxe414 Sep 30 2010, 09:58 PM Reasons to approach her: Possibility of a friendship Possibility of a romance Dispelling the stalker theory Learn her favourite things and what she likes to do Reason to not approach her: You like the idea of being thought of as a useless fucking cunt. Your choice. Chica Bow. looks at word 'cunt' looks at the new rules and guidelines coughs



AndMyAxe414	Sep 30 2010, 09:23 PM Post #39
Chicka Bow! Posts: 1,713 Group: Banned Member #3 Joined: July 20, 2010	Oops.



Unfie	Oct 1 2010, 12:02 PM Post #40
Big Sweaty Moose Bleepers Posts: 3,464 Group: Members Member #24 Joined: July 20, 2010	facepalm



bobtherocket	Oct 1 2010, 02:08 PM Post #41
COCKAMANCER Posts: 1,009 Group: Moderator Member #27 Joined: July 20, 2010	Either do it or don't. I agree with Axe wholeheartedly on his point.



AndMyAxe414	Oct 1 2010, 08:32 PM Post #42
Chicka Bow! Posts: 1,713 Group: Banned Member #3 Joined: July 20, 2010	bobtherocket Oct 1 2010, 07:08 PM Either do it or don't. I agree with Axe wholeheartedly on his point. Fuc....Wait, What?



Monstarcookie	Oct 2 2010, 01:29 AM Post #43
Posts: 2,345 Group: Moderator Member #4 Joined: July 20, 2010	ooooor....you could go in with the attitude that she IS going to reject you and just say fuck it, I'll just smile anyway. Thats basically what I did with my crush. I knew he wasn't interested in me, I knew he was never gonna be interested in me so I just smiled and said hello whenever I saw him. Strange way of thinking I know but....it worked for me.



Vysseris	Oct 2 2010, 02:01 AM Post #44
I Just Got Nommed Posts: 184 Group: Members Member #5 Joined: July 20, 2010	Quick off topic comment: Bob agreed with Axe!? I can't believe it


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