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| LegolasVII | Mar 22 2011, 02:38 PM Post #1 |
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There is a Girl in my Class at School and i really like her and she knows about it but she doesn't feel the same way about me as i do her. Is there anything i can do? |
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| TheMonty646 | Mar 22 2011, 03:20 PM Post #2 |
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Chicka Bow!
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*sighs* Well, lets see... Are you friends with her? How aware is she that you like her? Is she seeing anyone else? It's tedious enough to ask for relationship help on the internet, even more so if you leave out a bunch of information. Protip: Just talk to her. |
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| Monstarcookie | Mar 22 2011, 03:22 PM Post #3 |
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Not really....if she doesn't feel the same way, she doesn't feel the same way. Being nice to her and flirting a bit could MAYBE make her change her mind...it all depends on how uninterested she is. Heartaches like this are common....if you can't make her change her mind (don't force the issue on her) the best thing to do it just move on. |
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| LegolasVII | Mar 22 2011, 03:24 PM Post #4 |
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I am not a amazing friend. she is quite away as i have told her and she is not seeing anyone and besides since i told her she wont speak to me. I don't know if i freaked her out and she is thinking it over or what, Womens minds are strange EDIT:I have been told by people at my school to just talk to her but i am not the best with Women and i haven't had another experience like this |
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| iPwnies | Mar 22 2011, 03:27 PM Post #5 |
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You can't really do anything if she doesn't like you. You can try talking to her but dont be such a dork. |
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| LegolasVII | Mar 22 2011, 03:28 PM Post #6 |
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So you seriously think i would bring up Xbox or something to try and win a girl over? |
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| TheMonty646 | Mar 22 2011, 03:30 PM Post #7 |
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Chicka Bow!
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>posting on a forum filled with women Just a heads up there. The only thing you really can do is talk to her and be nice. Just don't be creepy about it. ![]() None of that. Just treat her like any other person. Talk to her like you would any other girl friend you have. Over a long course of time if she realizes you're a good guy, she could come around. If not, Then she isn't for you. |
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| princechiv | Mar 22 2011, 03:39 PM Post #8 |
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Woof Woof Woofies!
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She obviously feels a little awkward around you now because of the differences in how you feel. As always:Talk to her. Tell her your fine with her not feeling the same way and she'll be fine around you, it's probably because she feels you'll make an unwelcome move around her, just make it clear where you stand. |
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| iPwnies | Mar 22 2011, 03:40 PM Post #9 |
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How am I supposed to know what you would or wont do |
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| Monstarcookie | Mar 22 2011, 03:42 PM Post #10 |
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men arent exactly the easiest to understand either. As I understand you are quite young aren't you? And yeah....just talk to her. You could even try to talk games with her, more and more younger girls play games nowadays, so you might be surprised. If you've already told her you like her, you could sort of send her a text asking her what she's thinking....it's less scary for both of you, as I imagine it might be a bit embarassing for her aswell, not knowing how to handle the situation. |
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| LegolasVII | Mar 22 2011, 03:47 PM Post #11 |
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As i know she has had a couple of BF's but to me one of them is a slag that goes out with girls for the sake of it so ye and she aint interested in games |
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| iPwnies | Mar 22 2011, 03:49 PM Post #12 |
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Is this a problem? |
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| LegolasVII | Mar 22 2011, 03:51 PM Post #13 |
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Which part? EDIT:I will try to get a message to her to tell her i am cool with her not feeling the same and i will try to get her to tell me how shes feeling because it may be awkward for us both |
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| Reishadows | Mar 22 2011, 04:02 PM Post #14 |
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Neener Neener Neener
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A woman's mind is the most confusing thing you can ever try to understand. The more you try to reach a full understanding the more lost you may become. Eh you get the point here ~.~ Don't forcefully talk to her, I would say more ease your way back into a friendly zone where being around each other is normal. She knows you like her, and that may have made her question why you where her friend to begin with, and what you really are to her (Made her uneasy, and question why you like her, or what you want with her also ) Give her time to work things out and settle her nerves around you if you want her back as a friend. Worst case after a while if she can't talk to you and discuss what she is thinking about the whole event....... leave it alone she isn't really your friend or nothing more. You don't need to dwell on it and just move on. Life is to short for this type of stuff. Say hey to her, and be nice her, but other then that...well nothing more to be done. |
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| TheLowercasea | Mar 22 2011, 04:03 PM Post #15 |
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Woof Woof Woofies!
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I dunno why I care, but here's a few tips: 1. Talk, always communicate so you know what's going on with her, that way you won't accidentally say anything awkward (speaking from experience, unfortunately). 2. See above, that one is very important. ^^^^ 3. Don't be an asshole to her, or her friends, or anyone else while she is around. 4. You could always wait and see if she talks to you. 5. Don't try to understand her. I'm a very smart (and modest) person. But when I try to understand what's going on in Romi's head, I just confuse myself and say something stupid. |
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