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Having Girl Issues Help?; Please Read
Topic Started: Mar 22 2011, 02:38 PM (1,651 Views)
Apothek
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Step 1) Open the door.
Step 2) Get on the floor.
Step 3) Everybody walk the dinosaur.

Trust me, it will work.
 
LegolasVII
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One word.....LOL
 
TheLowercasea
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This topic has degenerated into nonsense! YAY :D :D :D
 
Unfie
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Big Sweaty Moose Bleepers
LegolasVII
Mar 25 2011, 05:31 PM
What do you mean?

I mean you need to stop worrying about how to get a girl to like you for the time being and get on with you're life. Simple as that.

But actually, Apothek's idea was better. I've tried that, and it works... in its own special ways... erm. <.<
 
LegolasVII
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To be serious with you i can't because i am doing really well in scholl anyway and the Girl i like is the most beautifulest thing i have seen in my entire life and i don't know how to impress her
 
Unfie
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LegolasVII
Mar 25 2011, 05:35 PM
To be serious with you i can't because i am doing really well in scholl anyway and the Girl i like is the most beautifulest thing i have seen in my entire life and i don't know how to impress her

No guts no glory, my friend. If you don't go up to her and introduce yourself a bit, I don't see how there's another possible way. Really though, none of us on the forums know who you are or what you're like. So I would suggest bringing up the subject with a very close friend or brother, sister, et cetera. They probably know you best.
 
LegolasVII
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I'm in her Form and i talk to her quite a bit on Facebook as i am a bit shy and trying to get the courage
 
princechiv
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Why not just enjoy yourself for a bit to take your mind off this? Mybe your just not ready for a relationship yet...
UnFre is right, if you just relax and enjoy yourself for a while, you might become more confident in talking to her.
 
LegolasVII
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Well as i believe someone has told me that if i speak to her on Facebook which i am doing loads it helps and according to someone who is helping me(yes i am that sad)she is sounding interested by what she is saying
 
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Apothek
Mar 25 2011, 05:32 PM
Step 1) Open the door.
Step 2) Get on the floor.
Step 3) Everybody walk the dinosaur.

Trust me, it will work.

I almost peed myself reading that.
 
Magicklorelai
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LegolasVII
Mar 25 2011, 05:48 PM
Well as i believe someone has told me that if i speak to her on Facebook which i am doing loads it helps and according to someone who is helping me(yes i am that sad)she is sounding interested by what she is saying

Speaking as a girl (well, a woman), if you're talking to her with the end goal in mind of winning her over and getting her to love you, then it's probably not going to work. It may be harmless on your end, but it's not respectful of the girl. She may be beautiful, and you may feel very strongly, but you don't know her.

If you're interested in getting to know her, that's one thing. But only wanting to get to know her because you think you're in love with her is a bad goal. Like I said, if the purpose is to try and get her to fall for you, then you're not really paying attention to this girl. You're just working towards an end goal.

This can be frightening to some girls/women. In fact, it can set off warning bells and alarms. At best, it can Friend Zone you permanently, at worst, she'll feel violated by the attempts to get close to her. This may not be true of all women, but we do live in a culture where women are taught to "look out" for that sort of behavior.

All and all, the advice is: Get to know her in earnest and learn if she's even really someone you love, or just crush on. Don't try to win her over. Don't try to impress her. Don't work on trying to lead her down a romantic path. Signs of someone being "interested" may only be her trying to be polite/nice, so be careful with that. Unless she herself says, "I'm interested", then don't assume anything.
 
MrGalagoth
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Neener Neener Neener
rip out someones heart and give it to a girl it worked for me
 
Monstarcookie
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First off...I really need to know how old you are. Things that are appropriate in my age might not be appropriate for someone your age so I feel I can't really give you any good tips.
 
Sinovera
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...you can't say you're in love with someone without knowing them well. Being attracted to someone because they are beautiful is called infatuation. Relationships aren't all about love and attraction. It takes a great deal of friendship to keep going. Relationships solely based on love and attraction will fall apart fast.
 
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Sinovera
Mar 26 2011, 12:41 PM
...you can't say you're in love with someone without knowing them well. Being attracted to someone because they are beautiful is called infatuation. Relationships aren't all about love and attraction. It takes a great deal of friendship to keep going. Relationships solely based on love and attraction will fall apart fast.

Quoted for so much truth.
 
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