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Topic Started: Jan 19 2012, 03:09 AM (12,681 Views)
emmalong
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Neener Neener Neener
yea what the reptilian said
 
BillboTheNegativePagan
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Ok I'm answering barries question without looking at the answers. It's not that they aren't true friends it's that it may be too much to tell them atm. If someone is worried for you and really wants to know you can be sure they're a true firend... and just try to be brave and answer their questions.. if it get's too personal for you tell them you think it is and if they say that's fine they are true friends. So.. hope that helped.
 
GhostBox
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So...

It's been a while since I last posted anything on here, and the reason for that is because I've been through a pretty difficult period of my life.
I've been thinking a lot, and I finally decided to go with the advice given to me by my parents, and the families' doctor... So, early this morning I took the bus to a Psychology Office, and basically had a small breakdown whilst talking to the Shrink...

Not in the best of moods right now, but I hope to become better in not too long.


~Sid.
 
Unfie
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GhostBox
Mar 15 2012, 03:31 PM
So...

It's been a while since I last posted anything on here, and the reason for that is because I've been through a pretty difficult period of my life.
I've been thinking a lot, and I finally decided to go with the advice given to me by my parents, and the families' doctor... So, early this morning I took the bus to a Psychology Office, and basically had a small breakdown whilst talking to the Shrink...

Not in the best of moods right now, but I hope to become better in not too long.


~Sid.
Hope you get better Sid. D:
 
MDS
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Indeed, hope it gets better after a while.
 
Velitie
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*huggles Sid*
 
Monstarcookie
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I'm happy you got the courage/strength to ask for help, it's not easy. It will get better (might get worse before it gets better). Hope you get lots of support from your parents and even tho it might mean little, we're here for you too ^^ *huggles*
 
GhostBox
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Thanks guys, it's much appreciated <3

As the saying goes; "It's always darkest before dawn." But I'm getting better, just feels strange talking about my own feelings.
I've always been a good listener, but I have hard times trying to talk about my own feelings, problems and things like that; so talking to this "Shrink" (for lack of better words early this morning) felt very strange and extremely uncomfortable...
BUT! I'm finally going to be better again, and hopefully I won't need to go to the Shrink more than a few weeks.

And again, thanks guys <3

~Sid
 
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Woof Woof Woofies!
My problems are trivial to the rest of yours. The only things I have to deal with are minor. The only real problems in my life are a rough move, being held back, being rejected, and hating my brother.
Hating my Brother: I don't know if I should being hating him. He has Aspergers. Maybe his mind works differently. But I hate. He never shares anything. He freaks out over the slightest thing. Even if I give him a compliment he will think I'm being negative. He hates if I offer him help. I wish I had a Brother I could talk to. I share my struggles with. Instead he is a rival. Nothing more.
Being Rejected: Not so much of a problem not that I've got over the first one. But it hits hard. I think it might hit again sometime soon.
Being held back: It really hasn't bothered me. I hated the class I was in. The whole lot of them were either Jerks or people who had no depth. It was horrible and I'm glad I'm graduating with them. I would say it was all due to me having a horrible sleep schedule back then but wouldn't be it. I refused to do my work. There must be something wrong with my brain if I refuse to work. It must be a lack of intelligence. An intelligent would not sit idly by and let the world around it be ruined.
Rough Move: The last place I lived in, a place called Atlanta, was a nice enough place. Most the people there were decent. The elder board of the Church my Dad was pastoring was not however. They wished for the church to be about them about how good they are. They did not want my Dad to begin reaching out in the community even though that's what they said they wanted. In the end my best friend inadvertently betrayed me. I felt that hardest.
Going Insane: I feel like I'm losing my grip on my sanity. I feel like since I don't talk much other people can hear my thoughts. I feel like that I'm already insane and I'm living in some sort of fantasy constructed by my mind. I have so much proof to dispell such a preposterous notion yet it always creeps back into my mind.
Sorry for troubling you guys with this I just felt I had to tell someone. Sorry again.
 
beastman721
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TheSamuraiElf
Apr 7 2012, 08:58 PM
My problems are trivial to the rest of yours. The only things I have to deal with are minor. The only real problems in my life are a rough move, being held back, being rejected, and hating my brother.
Hating my Brother: I don't know if I should being hating him. He has Aspergers. Maybe his mind works differently. But I hate. He never shares anything. He freaks out over the slightest thing. Even if I give him a compliment he will think I'm being negative. He hates if I offer him help. I wish I had a Brother I could talk to. I share my struggles with. Instead he is a rival. Nothing more.
Being Rejected: Not so much of a problem not that I've got over the first one. But it hits hard. I think it might hit again sometime soon.
Being held back: It really hasn't bothered me. I hated the class I was in. The whole lot of them were either Jerks or people who had no depth. It was horrible and I'm glad I'm graduating with them. I would say it was all due to me having a horrible sleep schedule back then but wouldn't be it. I refused to do my work. There must be something wrong with my brain if I refuse to work. It must be a lack of intelligence. An intelligent would not sit idly by and let the world around it be ruined.
Rough Move: The last place I lived in, a place called Atlanta, was a nice enough place. Most the people there were decent. The elder board of the Church my Dad was pastoring was not however. They wished for the church to be about them about how good they are. They did not want my Dad to begin reaching out in the community even though that's what they said they wanted. In the end my best friend inadvertently betrayed me. I felt that hardest.
Going Insane: I feel like I'm losing my grip on my sanity. I feel like since I don't talk much other people can hear my thoughts. I feel like that I'm already insane and I'm living in some sort of fantasy constructed by my mind. I have so much proof to dispell such a preposterous notion yet it always creeps back into my mind.
Sorry for troubling you guys with this I just felt I had to tell someone. Sorry again.
You'll be alright man, try not to stress out about these things, they're out of your control, which is tough to deal with sometimes, but you'll be a better person for it. My old roommate had aspergers, and he was kind of a pain, but I never really paid it any mind. Sometimes you just have to learn how to tolerate other people, I'm sure you and your brother have some kind of common ground you can reach, maybe a favorite tv show or something, that can help smooth things over, just talking about what you share in common.
 
TheSamuraiElf
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Woof Woof Woofies!
beastman721
Apr 8 2012, 03:18 PM
You'll be alright man, try not to stress out about these things, they're out of your control, which is tough to deal with sometimes, but you'll be a better person for it. My old roommate had aspergers, and he was kind of a pain, but I never really paid it any mind. Sometimes you just have to learn how to tolerate other people, I'm sure you and your brother have some kind of common ground you can reach, maybe a favorite tv show or something, that can help smooth things over, just talking about what you share in common.
I do but he just pulls away after that.
 
beastman721
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Chicka Bow!
Try giving him some space, if he doesn't want to interact, don't even bother. Some people are like that, if he gets somewhat hostile to you if you try and find some common ground, then just leave him be I guess.

Its frustrating, but I think he'll like you better for it.

And at the end of the day, he's your brother, hopefully when he gets older he realizes that and is a bit more forward with you.
Edited by beastman721, Apr 8 2012, 07:56 PM.
 
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it's gonna rain the whole weekend, and next week too. I'm not amused. Dog got another epilepsy seizure yesterday morning. That's 2 in 2 weeks. One more this month and we'll put him on meds. Cost me 190€ to get his blood tested. I am left with 20€ on my account, and I have bills of about 100€. Life sucks sometimes. I. Want. Chocolate. Now! And someone to do the whole WoW install for me. And someone to pay for everything I need. And a man who is actually grown up already, one who can take care of me, instead of me taking care of him. I want a nice job (I've been thinking bout trying to join you Wry in the library profession). Sigh......
 
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COCKAMANCER

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Apr 14 2012, 01:38 AM
I. Want. Chocolate. Now! And someone to do the whole WoW install for me. And someone to pay for everything I need. And a man who is actually grown up already, one who can take care of me, instead of me taking care of him. I want a nice job (I've been thinking bout trying to join you Wry in the library profession). Sigh......
This is lies. I have offered myself plenty of times.
 
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But Bob....you can't provide for two women :(
 
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