| Welcome to Toegoff. We hope you enjoy your visit. You're currently viewing our forum as a guest. This means you are limited to certain areas of the board and there are some features you can't use. If you join our community, you'll be able to access member-only sections, and use many member-only features such as customizing your profile, sending personal messages, and voting in polls. Registration is simple, fast, and completely free. Join our community! If you're already a member please log in to your account to access all of our features: |
| You | |
|---|---|
| Tweet Topic Started: Jan 19 2012, 03:09 AM (12,653 Views) | |
| Zyan | Jul 26 2015, 10:56 PM Post #586 |
![]()
Nyan Nyan Nyan Nyan Nyan Nyan Nyan Nyan Nyan Nyan Nyan Nyan Nyan
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]()
|
Went through another "Holy shit I am goddamn worthless" mindset phase tonight. Hopefully that doesn't happen again for a while. |
![]() |
|
| thewryness | Jul 27 2015, 12:55 PM Post #587 |
|
Chicka Bow!
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]()
|
I am in such a hugging mood. Big hugs to Zyan. The black dog is a bastard. Remember, you are not worthless. Not in the least. Stay strong. |
![]() |
|
| beastman721 | Jul 27 2015, 01:22 PM Post #588 |
![]()
Chicka Bow!
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]()
|
What happened Zyan? Maybe talking about it will help, I know it helps me. |
![]() |
|
| beastman721 | Jul 27 2015, 03:40 PM Post #589 |
![]()
Chicka Bow!
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]()
|
You know, I've just got to learn to let things go and ease up a little bit, and just try and be the best me I can be every day and maybe someday someone will notice. It's all I can do, I'm not perfect but I'm not going to try and be someone else, I'm good enough right now. Even though my personal life (or lack thereof) is a disaster something's gotta give at some point so I just have to try and keep on truckin'. Also no joke, if anyone feels alone or depressed or whatever you can always steam chat me, I think when you can talk about these things it makes it a little bit better, I hope I can help some of you guys if you ever need it. Edited by beastman721, Jul 27 2015, 09:18 PM.
|
![]() |
|
| beastman721 | Aug 25 2015, 03:12 PM Post #590 |
![]()
Chicka Bow!
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]()
|
So about two weeks ago I started visiting a therapist just to have someone to talk to in person. I would say it went pretty well and I'm just hoping I can learn to deal with life a little better. |
![]() |
|
| thewryness | Aug 25 2015, 04:20 PM Post #591 |
|
Chicka Bow!
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]()
|
That's great. Keep us in the loop as to how things go. Hugs. |
![]() |
|
| beastman721 | Aug 25 2015, 06:29 PM Post #592 |
![]()
Chicka Bow!
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]()
|
Yeah, I mean I still think all I need is for a single woman on this planet to at least not give me the full on dead body treatment so I can maybe have a connection with somebody. It's not going too well obviously but maybe talking about it with my therapist who's a youngish woman can help, because it amazes its been this hard for me with women considering: a) I'm a reasonably attractive young man with a decent job and an upward trajectory b) I dress pretty well and c) I have ambition. I'm not trying to humble brag at all here, but I at least think most women could probably do a whole lot worse than me, so I don't know, maybe I give off a bad vibe or whatever, I'm just tired of sitting around plucking daisies wondering when I'm ever going to get a girl to like me. It just sucks, I'm 23 and still haven't managed to be able to like, even have a connection with a girl. It's horrible. It's upsetting and lonely, but other than just trying to be myself, there's not much else I can really do. But damn, the loneliness really drives me crazy, it's like this black cloud that keeps pushing me down and making me feel terrible. You're nobody until somebody loves you right? Also, I have the meltdown starting at 2:26 like, every week: I hate my house, it stinks and it's a dump in the middle of nowhere. The worst part of my day always is coming home, and when people at work talk about how much they can't wait for the weekend I have to lie and pretend I'm looking forward to the weekend when the worst thing for me is coming home for the weekend and sitting on my ass. I like the weekdays because I feel like I've got a purpose, the weekends are miserable and borderline unbearable for me. Edited by beastman721, Aug 25 2015, 09:09 PM.
|
![]() |
|
| thewryness | Aug 25 2015, 09:26 PM Post #593 |
|
Chicka Bow!
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]()
|
You're a great guy Chris. Yer Adrian's out there and you are going to find her. It just takes a while. Meanwhile, did you look into Toastmasters or other weekend activities? Does yer space allow for a pet? Get a mutt and take it walking. Dogs are great conversation pieces.
Edited by thewryness, Aug 25 2015, 09:28 PM.
|
![]() |
|
| Sinovera | Aug 26 2015, 01:43 AM Post #594 |
|
Administrator
![]()
|
How is your confidence when talking to the ladies? Most women find confidence in guys attractive. Guys who look like they're sure of themselves and can handle any situation. Anyways, don't despair about not having found anyone. I, personally, never had a real life connection to any guy before I met Kevin. I never went on dates, I never went looking for guys, never even considered I could even have a relationship with anyone. Then I met Kevin in such a weird way (watching his LPs, then going to his livestreams)... You never know what life is going to throw at you and you might meet someone in a way you never imagined you would. Why don't you try to find a hobby of some kind for the weekends? I recently took up the violin again and I'm working on that. Gives you something to do and you'd be putting that time into improving yourself in some way. |
![]() |
|
| beastman721 | Aug 26 2015, 06:03 PM Post #595 |
![]()
Chicka Bow!
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]()
|
Thanks Lyn, reading that made me feel a little bit better. I think overall I have a confidence in myself as it relates to like, succeeding in life or just being able to believe that I can go and do it, but for whatever reason this doesn't really translate over to girls. But to be honest, even though I might not be puffing my chest out brimming with confidence, I can definitely be nice, warm and occasionally funny, even with a girl I like, but I dunno I just never seem to get anywhere. I guess the thing is that I've never had a girl like me back, which just plain sucks. It's like even though I know I'm trying to giving it my best every day at work and everything, this whole thing just kinda stinks, and it brings me down a little bit. Well, the only thing I can do is just keep going, maybe something breaks my way who knows. Edited by beastman721, Aug 26 2015, 08:50 PM.
|
![]() |
|
| beastman721 | Sep 7 2015, 03:11 PM Post #596 |
![]()
Chicka Bow!
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]()
|
So like, I don't want to read too much into things, but things have been going pretty okay with this girl at work, the one I've talked a bit about on this thread. I asked her how her weekend was, we stared talking about how bad the commute was last Wednesday when the trains were down... I mean, the point is I guess I'm on her radar now? She smiles at me whenever she sees me and I even made her laugh a couple of times this week. She also sent me a thank you email after I got one of her files out (which never happens w/ anyone else btw). So I guess I'm making progress? The thing is, I just really look forward to talking to her now whereas I used to be terrified of the prospect. It's definitely a process for me, but you know I'm just getting more comfortable with this kinda stuff so we'll see where this goes. Edited by beastman721, Sep 7 2015, 03:15 PM.
|
![]() |
|
| Pong | Sep 7 2015, 03:17 PM Post #597 |
![]()
Neener Neener Neener
![]() ![]() ![]()
|
|
![]() |
|
| thewryness | Sep 7 2015, 03:53 PM Post #598 |
|
Chicka Bow!
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]()
|
Wonderful news Chris! |
![]() |
|
| Monstarcookie | Sep 11 2015, 04:31 PM Post #599 |
![]()
|
a bit late but good going Chris. That's how to start. The more comfortable you feel talking to her the better
|
![]() |
|
| beastman721 | Sep 14 2015, 05:46 PM Post #600 |
![]()
Chicka Bow!
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]()
|
What's on your mind Z? |
![]() |
|
![]() Our users say it best: "Zetaboards is the best forum service I have ever used." |
|
| Go to Next Page | |
| « Previous Topic · General Forum · Next Topic » |














7:11 PM Jul 10